I don’t know about you but I know that for a long time I tried to build with or for others. I always had this need to do things with close ones. I knew how to share my dreams and vision so others would join the path with me. However I also knew deep down inside of me that I showed this behavior for certain reasons. I tried to convince others that my dreams were great. Ofcours it was also less scary if someone would take the challenge with me so I don’t have to do it alone. And most importantly if I failed I knew that the failure was also something I could share. How absolutely lovely it is to have this kind of support and experience right……?
So through it all I learned how scared I actually was to do things I loved to do on my own. How afraid I was to take opportunities and most of all how trying to achieve my goals with others doesn’t work after all. So I’m not talking about a collaboration or how to use each others talents to build an empire. What I’m talking about is depending so much on others that achieving your goals or not is controlled by others. When you put your dreams in the hands of another. Never really knowing what will happen with it. When you should take control of your path and be your own leader in the script of your life. However you decide that someone else should take over this role. I learned through the hard way how building on yourself is the best possible way to follow your dream. Therefor, I like to share the next life lessons about indepence and a step closer to your soul succes.
So first of all the most important thing is to take charge over your life. Be the leading actor in your own movie. Figure out what the goals are you like to achieve, make your own plan and start with building an empire. Don’t let fear interrupt with what’s on your mind. Be proud at all your failures because the fact that you decide to take action already is a victory for your succes.
The best gift you can give to yourself is to become your own leader. When you stop asking and just start doing. When you let go of doubting and start with creating. When you dont hide yourself behind others or on the background but you decide that the stage is made for you own words, thougths, beliefs and vision to be seen and heard. A real leader doesn’t do the things that are great and popular to do. To me and as I have learned a leader is one who does all the ‘dirty’ stuff. Taking for example the responsibility for succes and failure. Working like no one else in the room, not beinf afraid of opinion of others and doing what you think is the best for you!
“It took me quite a long time to develop a voice, and now that I have it, I’m not going to be silent.” Madeleine Albright
Lastly, I knew it might be the most difficult one to do. I’m still working on building on myself. Often I think others might know it better or they can do things better. So what I happens is instead of trusting I can achieve it on my own I leaned on others. I guess life has learned me that I know how to do the things I want to do the best. Instead of listening to your own intuition you cann’t stop looking at how someone else is doing it. Stop waisting so much energy and time on how others have created their little masterpiece. If you learn to build on yourself your wildest imagination might be even to small for what the universe has in store for you.
“Don’t be satisfied with stories, how things have gone with others. Unfold your own myth.” Jalaluddin Rumi
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